How to Protect Yourself from a Romance Scam – Guidance from The Met Police Campaign
Romance scams are among the most distressing forms of fraud — combining emotional manipulation with financial exploitation. As online dating and social media connections become more common, criminals are finding new ways to prey on trust and vulnerability.
At Wealth Recovery Solicitors, we regularly assist victims of romance and investment scams to recover lost funds and rebuild confidence. Here’s what you need to know about how these scams work, the Metropolitan Police’s latest awareness campaign, and what to do if you believe you’re being targeted.
What is a romance scam?
Romance fraud happens when a criminal creates a fake online persona to form a relationship with someone, only to exploit that trust for financial gain.
Typically, it begins with an online introduction — often through dating websites, apps, or even social media platforms. The scammer invests time building an emotional bond, gaining the victim’s trust, and ultimately fabricates a crisis or financial emergency that requires “urgent” help. Alternatively, individuals present the idea of investing with them.
The Met Police’s “Spot the Signs” Campaign
In a powerful new initiative, the Metropolitan Police, alongside the City of London Police and other regional forces, has launched a nationwide campaign to raise awareness of romance fraud.
Coinciding with World Romance Scam Prevention Day, the campaign — titled “Spot the Signs” — highlights real victim stories and stresses a crucial message: Anyone can become a victim of romance fraud.
The campaign focuses on:
Education: Teaching the public how to identify common tactics used by scammers.
Empathy: Encouraging open conversations to reduce the stigma victims often feel.
Empowerment: Urging people to report suspicious behaviour early, rather than suffer in silence.
Key advice from the Met Police includes:
- Stay on official dating platforms and avoid moving to private messaging too quickly.
- Never send money to someone you haven’t met in person.
- Use reverse image searches to verify profile photos.
- Be wary of anyone who asks you to keep the relationship secret from friends or family.
Recognising the Red Flags
Romance fraudsters can be highly convincing, but certain warning signs frequently appear. Be alert if the person you’re speaking with:
- Confesses strong feelings very quickly.
- Claims to be overseas or in a profession that makes meeting difficult (such as military or oil work).
- Avoids video calls or personal meetings.
- Asks for money to deal with an emergency, medical issue, or travel costs.
- Encourages secrecy about the relationship.
If several of these apply, it’s time to step back and seek advice.
What to Do If You Think You’re a Victim
Stop All Contact: Don’t respond further — scammers often use emotional manipulation to regain control.
Gather Evidence: Save all messages, emails, screenshots, and transaction details. This information can assist in recovery.
Contact WRS to recover lost funds
We know how to get results for our clients. In fact, we’ve helped recover more than £50 million for fraud victims. You can also expect superior customer service at WRS. Our UK-based specialists are on hand to provide reassuring, expert advice when you need it. Plus, we offer a no-win, no-fee service. You won’t pay a thing unless we recover your money.